The effects of narcissistic leadership

 

Everybody who has had an experience with a narcissistic personality type has learnt how they operate and will over time come to further realisations in figuring out why they did what they did, the motivation behind their words and actions, basically what their tactics were. There are many expressions within narcissistic behaviours, depending on their environment, what other aspects they carry within their personality types of the Enneagram, what their own deep inner beliefs are regarding human life and their role they believe they play in that. As always, when connected firmly to the original love spirit and true purpose of one’s soul journey, everybody, even those who have shaped into a narcissistic ego type, could – by their very origin – become who they truly are; all human inspiring, youthful, enthusiastic, life loving.

 

In their unhealthy state of ego self, they become literally the opposite of their original selves (as everybody else in their own ego state does). The artificial replacement of spirit has over time turned into a stubborn narcissistic model of self-importance, self-centrism; they have convinced themselves that the earth only revolves around them, they are the universal center, everybody else is below that. Rather than honouring human life in a sense of Oneness, their focus is solely focused on their ego self. In order to achieve constant attention and feel dictatorship-like empowerment, people are needed to deliver constant admiration for their self-obsession. To ensure that those people are always at hand, specific mind games need to be played to achieve that. The usual tactics of a narcissist is wheeling people in with false promises and compliments to gain trust, find out where weaknesses are stored to then use those to lash out at the shocked individuals when least expected, causing doubt and insecurity. Those strong enough to see through these tactics will – for reasons of self-preservation – step aside to be free from such kind of toxic manipulative life destructive control mechanisms. Others, trying to regain approval of what they thought was a trustworthy connection, are desperately altering their behaviour to win back the attention of the narcissist, who – by the way – will blame the attacked for their sudden ‘out-of-character’ reaction.

From all personality types, the narcissist bully type is the most difficult to come to self-realisation in a willingness to change, as they have now become too self-obsessed; letting go of this mania could risk their self-glorification and this would mean giving up their illusionary crown. There is often the presence of an underlying attraction to the evil side, giving them a false sense of power in believing anything they do will be ok.

What we see spread amongst our society in narcissist actions accumulates and expands into narcissist leadership. The destructive tactics of Nazi leaders can be followed through the history books of time and are clear to see.

Applied in politics, one must first create a state of inequality by ensuring that the gap between poor and rich becomes larger, the blame will later be shifted onto certain races, as this is their way to express their dislike against the human race in general. After all, they are the superior race and nobody must interfere with that kind of artificial glory. The foundation built to gain most of the country’s trust is made by a string of false promises; the beginning of mass confusion, dismantling of love consciousness, leading away from Oneness to a state of division, the start of blame games in full flow! A cunning way to guarantee austerity and racism to the point where hate is all there is, needed to start power games, leading to war. This will by now get those fired up who – just like the Nazi politicians – enjoy their irresponsible reign by abusing their powers, blame gaming others for the un-wellbeing of their country. They know they can get away with it and in their desperation to win approval and be recognised by their leader, are blindly following their leaders ‘role model’ actions.

In the end nobody wins because once the accused race disappears they will get those who were closest to them to fight each other to the point where nothing is left to fight no more and this is where the self destructive behaviour will eventually have nowhere else to go but backfire onto the narcissist self.

When visiting one of the concentration camps you will find that there is total silence. The evil energies at work at the time, when all the destruction took place, is still filling the air to the point were no bird wants to go anywhere near that space. Can you imagine a world like this all over, just by having shown obedience to somebody who deep down we know has committed themselves to control humans, everybody included?

Once again we must remember that every single one of us has the power to lift those evil energies by connecting with our own divine self-empowering spirit, that is and will forever be unconditional love, our own only eternal energy. A high intelligence has put certain laws down to ensure that the good love we all carry from that can never be overpowered. It is down to us which power we believe and trust in; the power of total control or the blissful power of love.

 

How to protect yourself from negative influences

Not too much focus should be given to negative forces and energies outside ourselves, other than knowing that they exist too and that we can do something about them. The reason they are around is due to the feeding ground available in our world, still containing more darkness than light. It is better to be aware of them than not, in a way to learn self-awareness and protection. One could compare it to road safety rules, we know that cars will kill us if we cross the road without looking, yet we don’t constantly think about how a car can injure us, once we know how to protect ourselves from that danger. When it comes to negative energies, we all have the choice of our free will and power of our spirit to eliminate all darkness in our world, including our own, without investing time and energy into fear or the fascination of mischievous spirits.

There are many negative influences trying to create a world of disharmony by subliminally trying to plant anti-humanitarian beliefs into our consciousness or keeping the ones we already have alive, be it by causing artificial problems, such as financial hardship, blaming nations, races or nationalities for the country’s own misfortune, misinformation and blatant lies.

The danger of remaining disconnected to our radiant spirit self by holding onto old issues, can be an attraction for such spirits to attach themselves to the person, often unable to detect such manipulative influences in its living space. Any reoccurring negative thoughts of self-doubt, judgement or criticising others out of constant anger, hate or envy, a need to upset or hurt somebody, constant exposure to abuse, demanding thoughts or a belief of superiority or unworthiness, major focus on material gain, are a sign that we need to take action to cleanse our suppressed emotions and conflicts; one to stay healthy and two to be free from negative influences.

These misguiding entities will go to wherever and whoever is allowing them to come close to. We must be very clear in our minds that negativity and destruction will not give us the power we are seeking, it is in fact a false power, taking us away from our far greater pure one. Only when we dare to reconnect with the purity of our immensely powerful spirit will we see the difference, it is only a thought away to do so. The moment we make that decision to return onto our path of reconnecting with the power of love, we will step by step be faced with everything we have accumulated, a perfect chance to deal with the undealt, transform and let go. A cover up of our shining light can attract mentioned entities, stemming from our own self-manipulating mind sets, operating from non-loving motives. The belief in love alone can make it harder for negative attachment to take place.

Once we make that decision, God, source, our guides, will be delighted to watch our spirit grow and be of great support and guidance, without interfering with our free will to support us on our self-empowering growth. It can sometimes feel like hard work, remaining stuck will be a lot harder though. God can not just wipe away all of our issues, without us undergoing our own efforts to do so, by showing willingness we gain great strength and fulfillment. We learn from the consequences of our actions, by making our own decisions we determine our path ahead.

The principle of God’s law is based on a great purpose and that is to give us all the freedom in the world to operate within that structure, the intent of which is always based on endless choices, who we wish to be and in that we can either recreate ourselves endlessly or do the opposite. Clearing conflicts, making peace, appreciation and opening up to unconditional love again, fine tunes us with the good energies we posses and in that moves us into vibrant light, pushing negativity of all sorts away. In fact, our instinct will become so sensitive that we find toxic energies unattractive and unbearable, because we can sense how it effects our now highly vibrational energy bodies.

In my work with people I have found that attachments to negative energies can also come from carrying obligational oaths from past lives, religious controlling belief systems, condemnation against God, anti-loving or negative vows. All you need to do is to clear those by saying you wish to let go of them and replace them with positive spirit reinforcing affirmations. Your guides will help you with this too by cutting old negative cords to self limiting and sabotaging belief systems on your journey to self-fulfillment. As the debris of life long horded untruths dissolve, your crown chakra develops a strong connection to universal information and wisdom downloads, you can use on a daily basis and to support others.

Once you are firmly walking your path again, it is advisable to ensure that you keep cleansing yourself emotionally, ask for the highest protection and keep your senses open to discern between authentic connections and the ones who are trying to divert you from your dedicated purpose by sabotaging your work and in general, making your life difficult. Free yourself from both, you are not unkind when allowing yourself to walk away from hindrance. Just like we cannot force somebody to change for the better, nobody can force us to fall back into the ditch we have just come out from, to then end up being pushed back into it. Everybody has free will and is welcome, once they have declared their commitment to support, we can support one another.

Distinguish constructive criticism and good advice from envious jealous remarks, designed to produce doubt and demotivation. Try not to be disheartened from hurtful remarks but instead develop a thick skin. Only you have your purpose and that must never be dismantled.

In case of dark spirit attacks, call on your guardian angel to remove the entity and whilst that is happening, visualise a huge bright shining light radiating outwards, blending the dark interference. This will free you and release you from being overpowered or taken over by unpleasant forces. Ensure on a daily basis to always visualise being surrounded within a golden dome of light.

Light is and will always be the stronger power, nothing is more powerful than God’s love, an unimaginable force. When we wish to connect with that light, know the difference between the energy of light beings and that of manipulative influences.

A light being is never demanding but always lovingly supportive, with only giving out information helpful on ones spiritual growth. Sometimes the answers come at a later stage or not as expected. The way of light spirit communication is never in interference with our free will, which means it is always based on our own decision making, always gentle, yet powerful.

The energy of a dark entity can sometimes be difficult to detect, on other occasions it is quite obvious. One way to ensure that what is trying to connect with you is coming from Source is by stating to your Guardian angel that you wish to only be connected to pure light beings. If it is not originating from Source, then you are not interested. Be very clear about that statement, without any second thoughts of a desire of spiritual self importance. Your guardian angel has no free will and therefore has to follow yours, which means that anything of darkness will be removed. Yet, it is important to still check with your heart. One clear indication that a lower spirit is trying to latch onto you is the absence of love, using the word alone does not mean it is vibrating from the energy of love. Further indications are when too much information is given to your questions or constant confirmation of you being the greatest, placing demands or too many future predictions, information about somebody else’s personal life or feelings of control.

Carnal sexual energy is a huge magnet for negative entities as the energy of love is missing during such intercourse. Our sacral chakra is the most powerful chakra of all, bearing the energy of co-creation. Once that part is contaminated with elements of basic sex, it can draw us towards more of that we actually wish to eliminate, leading to more casual sex, forming sexual addiction, accumulating more toxicity, effecting the mind, which has now formed blocks within our natural abundant selves. We can at any time break out of this vicious cycle by deciding to cleanse our precious sacral area and all other chakras, by aligning to pure love and making/creating love energy from that level of love consciousness. The intensity of this ecstatic experience will form such a ball of bright light that no lower frequency can remain attached and will therefore be blown away.

In a nutshell; if you understand the protective, self-empowering, loving energy of God’s wish for us, then you will also sense those high energy spirit beings, who are coming from that very same level of consciousness.

Always remember that we are light and to that we can return. Guaranteed that the rewards will be beyond our wildest dreams, as this is a reward within itself; after all we are connecting with a deep sense of wholesome meaningful well-being for the greater good, forever lasting, an exhilarated feeling to be alive!

Each one of us has the power to create a shift in consciousness, creating an expansion of the healing platform for our planet. We are divinely powerful enough to create the exact harmonious world again to which we were initially sent to live and love together. We can be much brighter and do things so much better than what we were conditioned to believe.

Resolving issues lightens up our spark and in time, turns into a bright flame of enlightenment, forming a protective shield around us. We become our divine purpose again and nothing can stop us on this exciting endeavor. We align with the instincts of our common sense, which in time teaches us to trust more and more in its clear guiding vision of the truth of our existence and in that all darkness will be washed away by waves from an ocean of our joined spirit love.