Those who have had an experience with a narcissistic personality type have learned how they operate and will, over time, come to further realisations about why they did what they did, the motivation behind their words and actions, basically what their tactics were. There are many expressions within narcissistic behaviours, depending on their environment, what other aspects they carry within their Enneagram personality types, what their own deep inner beliefs are about human life and the role they believe they play in it. As always, when firmly connected to the original love of one’s true spirit and purpose of the soul’s journey, everyone, even those who have shaped into a narcissistic ego type, become – by their very origin – who they truly are; all human, inspiring, youthful, enthusiastic, life-loving beings.

 

But when ruled by an unhealthy state of ego-self, they literally become the opposite of their original selves (as everyone else does in their ego state). The artificial replacement of their spirit, the Higher Self, has over time manifested into a stubborn narcissistic model of self-importance, a form of self-centredness that convinces the mind that the earth revolves only around them. They firmly believe that they are the universal centre and that everyone else is beneath them. Instead of honouring human life in a sense of oneness, their focus is solely on their ego-self. In order to get constant attention and to feel dictatorial empowerment, people are needed to provide constant admiration and obedience to their self-obsession. To ensure that these people are always available, specific mind games need to be played to achieve this. The usual tactics of a narcissist are to lure people in with false promises and compliments to gain trust, find out where weaknesses are stored, and then use strategies to lash out and attack the person’s fragility when the shocked person least expects it. This then creates more doubt and insecurity. People who are strong enough to see through these tactics will – for reasons of self-preservation – step aside to be free of such toxic, manipulative, life-destroying control mechanisms. Others, trying to regain the approval of what they thought was a trustworthy relationship, will desperately change their behaviour to win back the attention of the narcissist who, by the way, will blame the ‘victim’ for their sudden ‘out of character’ reaction.

Of all the personality types, the Narcissistic Bully is the most difficult to change into a better version of the self, because he/she has become too self-obsessed. Letting go of this mania could risk their self-aggrandisement and that would mean giving up their imaginary crown. If you explore the deeper psyche of a narcissist, you will find an underlying attraction to the dark side, which gives them a false sense of power and justifies their reckless actions.

The accumulation of narcissistic actions in our society is expanding into narcissistic leadership. The destructive tactics of an extremist or an extreme right-wing leader can be traced throughout history, all we have to do is open our eyes to see clearly! Far right dominance can be found in any religion, culture or nation.

Applied to politics, one must first create a state of inequality by indoctrinating hatred against a ‘lower race’, while at the same time employing strategies to ensure that the gap between rich and poor is widened. The blame for a country’s misfortunes is later shifted to another or ‘inferior race’, as this is the dictator’s way of expressing dislike for the human race in general. After all, they are the rulers of a ‘superior race’ and no one is allowed to interfere with such an artificial glory. Such loose foundations – built to gain the trust of most of the people – consist of a series of false promises and lies, as well as the fabrication of false accusations and conspiracies with the aim of ‘total victory’ through the total elimination of a race, countries or nationalities.

Statements are made that certain cultures are to blame for the country’s economic decline and high unemployment rates, claiming that these people are ‘stealing our jobs’. Such repetitive tactics have been used for centuries to confuse and divide the masses in order to dismantle a state of Oneness that holds the highest level of Love Consciousness.

A cunning way to guarantee austerity and racism to the point where hatred is all that is needed for the authoritarian regime’s power games to start a war. This will inflame those who, like all far-right politicians and dictators, make enormous financial gains from their irresponsible rule through total abuse of power. After all, it’s not them who are to blame for the poor state of their country, but everyone else who doesn’t comply with the demands of a totalitarian state. Their super-ego has convinced them that they can get away with anything, reinforced by their connections to a very dark world. In addition, such power-driven individuals are desperate for approval and recognition from their army of people, leading them to blindly follow a highly destructive role model.

We must be very clear that the justifications for starting wars are not what the masses are led to believe. It is never done to protect against the enemy or to remove the ‘rotten and worthless’ in an essential cleansing process, but to take over lands and countries for one’s own desperate need to own and control absolutely everything and everyone, the ruthless ruler sees himself as the sole overlord of the world and to achieve this radicalism, violence and destruction are the only way to get what he wants. Every single warlord in the history of this planet has either convinced his people that a war was necessary to stop neighbouring countries from attacking ‘his’ people, or it was an inside job from the start. After thousands of years of human life, the same old repetitive tactics have been used and it seems that not enough of us have learned this very important lesson of such senseless actions.

In the end, no one wins, for once the persecuted and the non-followers of a false ideology rise in resistance, the misleaders lose their dictatorial power and begin to fight each other. Even their closest allies will be provoked to the point where there is nothing left to fight. Eventually, this destructive behaviour must backfire.

You will find that the toxic energies left behind in war zones can be felt for decades. If you visit one of the concentration camps, for example, you cannot help but notice the total silence that surrounds the area. The energies of dark minds have left their mark on those who have not acted in God’s desire to create a prosperous world, but have used His name in vain to justify lawless destruction and killing. It can be felt in the air and has sunk deep into the earth, to the point where not even birds fly near it.

Can you imagine living in a world like this, run by a few ruthless individuals, all because of obedience to someone who is determined to dominate humanity and all life on Earth by killing anything that gets in the way of their agenda and demands?

Once again we must remember that each and every one of us has the power to eliminate evil energies by connecting with our own divine self-empowering spirit, which is and always will be eternal unconditional love. A high intelligence has laid down certain laws to ensure that the good love we all carry within us can never be overpowered. It is up to us which power we believe and trust in; the power of total control or the blissful power of love.