This chapter describes how, years before my dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer, the Universe began to connect me with people who became close friends and played an important role in his healing journey. Please know that this is not just about my dad, or who is the no. 1 healer or who gets all the credit! It goes way beyond that! This has all been done to raise awareness in so many ways; to share all the experiences to contribute to a world of togetherness in cooperation rather than competition. It is time to move beyond stagnant belief systems! There are many solutions to regain health, perfectly adapted to our individual needs. We are more than machines, we are capable of so much more, but not if we remain stuck in the misguidance of an ego mind control system.
Uli was introduced to me in 2000 by some friends whose children went to the same nursery. We are both from Germany and sometimes found it hard to get used to the NHS system here. Whenever there was a health problem, we ended up consulting each other. I often mentioned Homeopathy because it had worked for my daughter and son. We jokingly said, “We need to become self-sufficient and start being our own healers”. I’d often tell Uli that she would make an excellent Homeopath.
Two weeks after my father’s diagnosis, the Homeopathic college Uli attended was teaching the ‘Plussing Method’ developed by Dr Ramakrishnan. This was what I’d been looking for and what my gut was telling me, despite controversial reactions from the medical field and some friends. The Universe responded to my inner knowing, through various channels. It later turned out to be one of the key factors in the successful healing of the tumour.
In 2003, I was visiting my parents in Germany. One night a friend took me to a local nightclub where I saw a young, tall man looking desperate. “His girlfriend broke up with him,” I thought, “How can I talk to him without giving the wrong impression?”
There was an internal battle going on between the impulse to talk to him, give him some comfort, not wanting to force my support on him, and thinking I should just let the whole thing go as it was none of my business.
After a while this young man decided to go home and started walking towards the exit. An inner voice urged me to follow him. My mind kept saying, “No, if it is meant to be, I will see him again! But what if I don’t see him again? We live in the UK. Go and talk to him, he needs to be reassured. I will never forgive myself if anything happens to him and I could have done something, just by showing somebody cares”, my inner voice replied to the doubting voice.
Unsure who to listen to, I suddenly felt a gentle invisible hand nudging me towards the exit until I was standing right behind him and heard myself say: “Where are you going?” “Home” he said, “I have to get up early for work. I also have to look after my dog. My girlfriend left me, so I have to look after him. My name is Jens, by the way”. “Oh, OK,” I replied, “I’m visiting my parents and live in England with my husband and children. I am sorry that your girlfriend has left you. I’d better let you get home then” Jens was thrilled to hear that we lived in the UK; he told me how much he loved it there. We exchanged email addresses and over the next few weeks he was able to confide in me. Somehow I managed to convince him not to close himself off to other women, that somewhere out there was the right one for him. Shortly after our conversation, he met Tanja, his future wife, an A&E nurse at the hospital where my dad would be treated two years later.
Tanja, together with Jens, was an incredible support from the beginning; she organised meetings with consultants and was always there to advise me on any medical questions I had.
In February 2004, the year my father was diagnosed, I was back in Germany. This time I went out for a drink with my dear friend Christine. We met at our first job when we were both 16. That night we happened to be standing next to a tall, beautiful woman; Conny had just ended a toxic relationship and was out for the first time after weeks of withdrawing from society to process the break-up. We talked as if we had known each other forever. When it was time to go home, I asked Conny for her number. Again, I didn’t want to be pushy or intrusive; the same inner voice told me to stay in touch. “It can’t be intrusive, just to check on her wellbeing, after all we got on so well,” I thought to myself.
The next time we met, Conny introduced me to her friend Sabine, who told us about her mother-in-law who was suffering from pancreatic cancer. Sabine’s brother-in-law was a consultant for internal medicine. Interestingly, he was also trained in complementary medicine! She explained to us that her mother-in-law refused all treatment and it was only her strong will that kept her alive, well beyond her predicted life expectancy. Unfortunately, she would not even allow her son to treat her. The mother-in-law died a few months after our meeting.
I listened with great interest and it was only 5 months later that I knew I had to get in touch with Sabine to ask for her brother-in-law’s phone number to discuss my father’s case with him.
As I mentioned earlier, knowing how my dad’s academic mind worked, I needed to find a qualified medical doctor who also specialised in Homeopathy, someone my dad would respect and take his expert advice on board. The Universe also knew my dad and had previously provided me with the relevant people who were able to put me in touch with such specialists!
Finally, I contacted Sabine’s brother-in-law. He recommended one of Germany’s top consultants who specialises in 3 medical fields and is also a trained Homeopath. Dr Uwe Friedrich is a highly respected figure in the medical scientific world and runs his own clinic in Germany. He was a very important figure in this whole experience. My father fully respected him and therefore followed his advice not to opt for chemotherapy but to follow a holistic programme. Dr Friedrich was also the one who administered the first homeopathic treatment, pointing out that it was my father’s lifestyle that had made him ill; changing it to a healthier one would increase his chances of recovery.
Two weeks into my father’s stay at Dr Friedrich’s clinic, he developed jaundice and had to return home to be hospitalised again for a further three weeks. In order to continue the homeopathic treatment, Dr Friedrich advised my father to see one of his highly respected colleagues, Dr Andreas Wacker, whom my father visited frequently and who applied the Plussing Method.
Another important incident worth mentioning is the story of my brother Markus. His wife Margit was diagnosed with a deadly form of leukaemia in 1990, before they were married. She spent a year in hospital, going through an endless list of medical and chemotherapy treatments, operations, until one day Markus said he had had enough of Margit being used as a guinea pig and signed a form to have her released. He searched for and found an anthroposophical clinic where Margit was treated using a holistic approach to address the root cause of her illness.
At the time, he tried to explain to me that there had to be an emotional reason for the leukaemia to start in the first place. I was very sceptical then, believing that taking Margit out of hospital was a death sentence.
Today they are happily married and have a healthy son. Markus was the one who opened me up to the fact that some form of toxic memory or trauma must have created this tumour in my father’s body.
We all worked together as a team, supporting my dad as best we could. 7 months after starting the Plussing Method with Dr Wacker, he was given the all clear. At first the doctors thought the CT scanner was damaged and asked him to come back for another check up. A conventional doctor ridiculed my father before the all clear was announced, saying that holistic therapy would never remove a tumour of that size.
Soon after the good news, a TV crew from a science programme called ‘W wie Wissen’ came to include my dad in one of their documentaries about the 250th anniversary of the founder of Homeopathy, Dr Samuel Hahnemann.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KdCjy5nnutc&t=6s
My dad was also contacted by ‘Bild Zeitung’ (the German equivalent of the Sun) and a famous German TV presenter to talk about his success story, but he turned them down.
We had a lot of positive reactions and feedback from many people, but also some very strange reactions; such a complete rejection of the reality we were blessed with. The mainstream medical field was totally refusing to accept the healing power of proven effective holistic therapies, including the media in the UK, who were not at all interested in writing about my dad’s recovery. Jealous remarks were dropped by some people in the spiritual field, accusing me of some deeply disturbing things about why I was supporting my dad during those difficult weeks, such as doing all the work for fame and glory. Although I knew in my heart that the treatment we were using was the right one, the only time I could be certain of this was after the all clear. Then there were those who were eager to profit from the success story and take all the credit.
Although it was me who pulled all the strings during those incredibly worrying and stressful times, and who found the right medically holistically trained consultants, none of us could have done it without the others. We were all in it together.
However, my dad’s amazing recovery has encouraged me to follow one of my greatest passions, which is to help people on their journey of healing, overcoming problems and revealing their true potential and beauty. In my search for a method to uncover the cause of my dad’s pancreatic cancer and ensure it never came back, I came across The Journey Method, which does just that. It also helps to completely cleanse our cells of suppressed cellular memories and emotional or mental toxicity of any kind.
Little did I know at the time of my dad’s diagnosis that this would lead me to qualify in all the major therapies I now practice. The successful results I have seen in my clients cannot be underestimated.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1M0-SIf9Iqc&t=4s
Whatever happens in your life, and whatever conventional or holistic treatment you choose, know that you have the potential to heal. Make sure you find the root cause and resolve the unresolved. You will be forever grateful to yourself for having actively participated in your own healing journey, accessing your divine self-empowerment and unleashing the body’s infinite healing potential. Access your best parts and become who you really are and always will be.